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03/31/18
Emotional Intelligence.
Filed under: Recent Posts, Interviewing, Networking, Mature professionals
Posted by: site admin @ 11:01 am

One of my critical findings about IDPs Academic inspired
Individual Development Plans is it completely “whiffs” on
emotional intelligence.

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I fear that if you ‘fill out the forms’ for IDP you miss nearly 
half of the skills many employers desire in applicants.
Justin Bariso wrote a thoughtful article on how emotional
intelligence is revealed.  It is not about using big words and
offering elaborate details about technical concerns.
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He offers
1.  asking questions of yourself, like
     how does my mood affect my behaviors, thinking and 
decisions?
      what subsurface influences affect me and others?
to uncover self and social awareness.
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2.  how do you control your reaction to things that affect
your emotions.  You have little to manage your emotional
take on things, but how you react can reveal your character.
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3.   Do you say what you mean and mean what you say?
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4.   Empathy for others;  not meaning agreeing with others
but trying to understand others.
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5.  Do you intentionally commend and show appreciation
for others?
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6.  Do you keep your commitments and help others?
conversely, do you apologize for short-fulfilling commitments
and even guard yourself from being taken advantage of
by being manipulated?
 


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